(hair) parting is such sweet sorrow...

Well, I guess it had to happen eventually.

After 10 + devoted years, I've split up...with my hairdresser.
Yes! I am single...and it feels good...in an odd way.

I always envisaged growing old with G****s (my ex 'dresser.) I held many a day dream of our future together such as her -

• being the one to caress my follicles on my wedding day.
• advise me on what products to put on my first child's scalp.
• hopping on my private jet to my filming destination for the periodic steam*

Seriously, the list was endless...I had plans I tell you..PLANS!

But as with all best laid plans, reality doesn't always match the fantasy.

The red flags started waving lightly in the breeze - if she had a salon full of clients, she expected me to be the one who was happy to wait all frigging day whilst she tended to her other clients. Y'know like I don't have a life of my own or something.

I mean, G****s is a genius, and her anointed hands were able to deal with the most stubborn of follicles, however if the booked appointment is at 11:30 hrs, yet your hair-do STILL wasn't done by 17:00 hrs, its fair for your eyebrows to raise and your eyes to roll somewhat as your arse gets numb.

Then the prices starting to creep up slowly yet steadily. Over the years, G-lady developed an annoying habit of not mentioning prices with you when you booked the appointment, it was only when you were sat in her chair with your hair wet looking like a troll, she'd mention she'd used a new and improved all singing/all dancing treatment which was 'x' amount so this trip was gonna cost more than your previous time. Okay...

Another mega gripe I had was the busier she become, the ruder she became...especially towards her staff. One thing I deplore is when people in positions of power treat others (especially those who depends on you for their livelihood) like poo.

So, after overhearing one cutting and insensitive remark too many I made a mental note to bid farewell to the woman who held my hair happiness in her hands.

It was scary at the time, but change is good....Onward and upwards!

What are your thoughts on hairdressers? Do you have a regular person who oversees your locks? Comment below and let me know! xo


* I adore the environment so, probably not the best idea.

Summer Dreams...

That was quick! Summer, I mean ;-)

As the UK approaches Autumn, it's fun to look back at recent fun times....such as 'Making like a Tourist in London' day!

From taking a rickshaw on Westminster Bridge, braving the intense crowds at the London Eye to almost getting drenched at Southbank's Fountain, truly glorious times were had.

As I had plans for the early evening (in the opposite direction from where I live) and also a mental note to adhere to a casual/smart dress code.

Digressing slightly...I cannot think of a single person who appreciates being advised' dress casual/smart'...I mean, it's hardly helpful is it! It can be frustrating and time consuming picking a suitable outfit!

 Anyways, I think I hit the nail on the head with this dress! 

This amazing book clutch is from a selection at TK Maxx....seriously roomy!
and the sandals are from River Island 

For me, it ticks multiple boxes - 

• just above knee length
• floaty sleeves (covers top of arms)
• v-neck
• material thin enough so I can wear with a jacket (thinking Winter wardrobe)
• And the best part...it's a supermarket buy! Yes, I got this glorious frock from Tescos Florence & Fred range.

When in doubt, blow your own trumpet! 

For this day it was perfect attire to see me through day and night. Accompanied with my Gap trench coat...just in case the weather changes suddenly...trust me when I say UK weather can change at the flick of a switch.

What's your favourite Summer memory? Comment below and let me know xo

Those lines tho...

Mount of Jupiter is going IN... 

So, last weekend I had my hands palms read, and trust me when I say....what I was told is goooood! 

Thank you Katy Hussey for such a beautiful illustration :-)))

There are many people who throw shade at Palmistry,  which I'm cool with (each to their own after all).

Some of the things I find intriguing/appreciate about palmistry is -

•  it's to be treated a a guide or suggestion, not a depiction of how your future is definitely going to be set
• the lines on your hands tend to change over the course of your life.
• it can encourage more positive thoughts about your life decisions. (Especially when your career is within a precarious industry). Your thoughts become your things, after all!

So, as we are already in the eighth month of 2016 (gulp) I truly hope your hopes and dreams are still progressing steadily along. 

What do you think about Palmistry? 

How are your plans coming along? 

I'd love to know, so comment below! xo

The 4 Fs.....

Erm....I'm talking about Festivals, Fringes, Fun and Frills.....

If you thought anything else from the title then oi oi!*




Bodycon dress is from Forever 21 and
the sandals are from TK Maxx

So far, touch wood, Mother Nature has blessed the UK with some really lovely rays. There really is nothing better than stepping out of your front door and feeling as though you've been hit a radiator.

 

And with the heat comes a wardrobe edit. Gosh! Summer fashion is a dream, isn't it! Seriously...anything goes! 

 

During the week (when I'm busy at my day job) I have to take into account -

1. commuting

2. commuters 

3. public transport.

 

Not to mention striving to look pro and on the ball....evenings and weekends however are a different story....hehe!

 

 

 

Silver bib necklace is from a selection at good old Topshop

 

I definitely am a fully fledged  member of  #TeamCurve. However, there have been a time (in the past) where I've deliberately covered up my assets.

This  was partly down to wandering/unwelcome eyes from strangers, but c'mon! We live in a visual, nosy and oversharing age, and quelle surprise....

 PEOPLE. DO. STARE.

But really, it's mostly down to (my own) body insecurity.

But this way of thinking is very damaging, and the only person who is going to end up hurt is yourself.

 

 

 

Thank you Katy Hussey for such lovely images...xo

 Now that I'm older, wiser, sophisticated and worldlier (a legit word?) it occurred to me that if you're going to spend time thinking about yourself, strive to make these thoughts loving and positive! 

 

The world is tough enough as it is, so does it really make any sense for you to be your own biggest enemy? No, of course not.   

The large grey clutch is from TK Maxx and the
Suede look Fringe Waistcoat is from George at Asda...shh....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Get out in the sunshine, meet up with old friends, make new one's. Have some good times and fantastic memories.

Seriously...life is good when you choose to make it good.

Remember always....life is about ENJOYING YOURSELF!!

















* you can take the girl out of Essex....